Many parents lose connection with adult children not in one moment, but slowly, as small injuries go unrepaired and stack into an iceberg of contention. In this workshop, psychotherapist Matthias Barker maps how well-meaning worry can land as doubt or control, which pushes grown kids to pull away. You'll learn how to spot the pattern in real time, shift from “fixing” to understanding, and use three repair moves so your adult child can actually feel your heart and love for them.